Throughout my life I have run into people that don’t really have a kink or a fetish. These people are called vanillas. They simply have no desire to introduce any kink or fetishism into their sexual fantasies. The best way to deal with vanilla bf’s or gf’s is to wait until you feel comfortable to release to them your deepest, darkest fantasies. It’s a 50/50 shot that they will accept you for who you are. If you are willing to put your relationship on the line and tell them about your sexual desires, be ready to accept the fact that they might not be the person that you were meant to be with. On the other hand, they might be accepting of the fact and they might even want to explore it with you. Remember that their are several other people in the tickling community all over the world that are in the same boat as you are.
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